Making Yourself Work

We all have days (or weeks) when motivation feels like a distant memory. The alarm goes off, and instead of leaping into action, you hit snooze—or worse, you roll out of bed and spend hours scrolling social media, telling yourself you’ll “start in five minutes.” The work sits there, staring at you, and you stare back, wondering how you’re going to get anything done.

Sound familiar?

Making yourself work when you’re not feeling it isn’t about forcing discipline or guilting yourself into productivity. It’s about understanding your patterns, creating a better environment, and sometimes, simply tricking your brain into starting. Here’s how to get yourself moving when motivation is nowhere to be found.

Start Smaller Than You Think

When you’re overwhelmed, even the simplest tasks can feel monumental. The trick? Shrink the starting point. If you need to write a report, don’t aim to finish the whole thing—just open a blank document. If you’re dreading a workout, commit to putting on your sneakers.

There’s magic in starting small. Once you take the first step, the next one feels easier. I call this the “snowball of effort”—a single action can start rolling you toward momentum, even if you don’t feel ready.

Rethink Motivation

Here’s an uncomfortable truth: motivation is fickle. It comes and goes, and waiting for it to strike is like waiting for perfect weather—it’s unpredictable at best.

Instead, focus on consistency. Build habits that don’t rely on motivation but instead on routines. For example, I’ve made a deal with myself: every morning, I write for 20 minutes. Some days, it’s awful. Other days, it flows. But over time, the routine has made writing feel as automatic as brushing my teeth.

Motivation often shows up after you’ve started, not before. So don’t wait for it—just begin.

Change Your Environment

If your workspace feels uninspiring or distracting, it’s no wonder you’re struggling to focus. Sometimes, a small change in environment can have a big impact.

Clear your desk. Light a candle. Move to a coffee shop or a sunny corner of your home. Create an environment that feels inviting, not oppressive.

When I was procrastinating on a big project, I started using a trick I call “task zoning.” I dedicated one chair in my apartment to work—no lounging, no scrolling, just work. Sitting there became a signal to my brain: it’s time to focus.

Use the Timer Trick

The hardest part of working is often starting. To make it easier, set a timer for just 10 or 15 minutes. Tell yourself, I’ll work for this short time, and then I can stop if I want.

Nine times out of ten, you’ll find that once you start, you don’t want to stop. The timer lowers the stakes, tricking your brain into action.

I’ve used this trick for everything from cleaning my apartment to tackling dreaded emails. What begins as “just ten minutes” often turns into a productive hour.

Find Your Why

When work feels pointless, it’s hard to stay motivated. That’s why connecting your tasks to a deeper purpose is so powerful.

Ask yourself: Why does this matter? Maybe finishing a report helps your team meet a goal. Maybe studying for an exam brings you closer to a career you care about. Maybe cleaning your kitchen gives you a sense of peace.

For me, reframing my work as a stepping stone toward something bigger—helping people, building my skills, or creating a life I love—makes it easier to push through the hard moments.

Break It Down

Overwhelm is often the biggest barrier to starting. When a task feels enormous, your brain wants to avoid it. The solution? Break it down into bite-sized pieces.

If you need to write a paper, start with the outline. If you’re decluttering your house, focus on one drawer. Breaking tasks into smaller chunks makes them feel more achievable—and checking off each step gives you a little dopamine hit of satisfaction.

Embrace Imperfection

Perfectionism is a productivity killer. When you’re fixated on doing something perfectly, it’s easy to avoid starting altogether.

Give yourself permission to do a “messy first pass.” Write a sloppy draft. Begin a task knowing it won’t be perfect. You can always refine later—but you can’t improve on a blank page.

I used to spend hours agonizing over the first sentence of anything I wrote. Then I started setting a timer for five minutes and telling myself, Just write something. Those “bad beginnings” often became the foundation for work I was proud of.

Reward Yourself

Bribery works—especially when you’re your own boss. Set small rewards for finishing tasks. Maybe it’s a coffee break after an hour of focused work, or a walk outside after completing a challenging project.

I’ve even turned my rewards into a game. After finishing a particularly grueling task, I add a star to a chart on my wall. It’s childish, sure, but seeing those stars accumulate is surprisingly satisfying.

Forgive Yourself for Procrastinating

Here’s the thing: beating yourself up for procrastinating doesn’t help. It just drains your energy and makes starting even harder.

Instead, approach yourself with kindness. Everyone struggles to focus sometimes. Recognize that procrastination isn’t laziness—it’s often fear, overwhelm, or fatigue in disguise. By addressing the underlying cause, you can move forward with less resistance.

The Takeaway: Just Start

When you’re struggling to make yourself work, remember this: starting is the hardest part. You don’t need to be perfect, fast, or motivated—you just need to begin.

One small step leads to another, and before you know it, you’re moving forward. The work doesn’t have to be flawless, and neither do you. Just show up, do your best, and trust that it’s enough. You’ll thank yourself later.