Why You Should Think About Encouraging Others to Be Brilliant
For a long time, I thought success was mostly about improving myself. Read more books. Learn more skills. Become more productive. Push a little harder every day. There is nothing…
Why Perfectionism Stops Us From Creating New Habits
I used to think the hardest part of building a new habit was finding the motivation to start. I was wrong. Starting was usually easy. I would buy a new…
When Your Expectations of Others is Making You Frustrated
For a long time, I thought other people were the reason I felt frustrated. I expected friends to reply as quickly as I did. I expected coworkers to care about…
Where You Get Your Sense of Self-Worth
For a long time, I did not realize where my self worth came from. I thought it came from success. If I achieved enough, I felt good about myself. If…
Why Fear of Discomfort Might Be Ruining Your Life
I used to think I was making smart decisions. I avoided awkward conversations because I wanted to keep the peace. I stayed with routines that felt familiar because they were…
13 Practical Steps for Learning to Go With the Flow
There was a time when I wanted every part of my life to go according to plan. I liked knowing what would happen next. A full calendar felt comforting, and…
When Your Task List is Overwhelmingly Long
. There are days when my task list seems to have a personality of its own. I finish three things before lunch, only to discover that five more have somehow…